Bad day

Haley went to the ENT dr today cause she has had an infection in her ears for the past month. Well the infection is gone but there is still fluid in there so he put h er back on anitboodics and guess what. On the 5th of Dec. just 3 days after her birthday my baby has to go in to have her 4th set of tubes in 3 years. I thought he would wait awhile to see how she does like he did when they fell out after 3 weeks. Nope they tried to do a hearing test which she refused to do but they did get the picture of her eardrum working. He said they are getting weeker from all the fluid and pressure in there so he wants to go in now to relieve the pressure. I am so upset. A few days ago I was talking to my mom about which sunday to have her party. I was aiming for the 7th but now we have decided to go with the 30th that way she has a new toy to take to the hossy with her. So now I have to get her party planned, and her cake done.I am in tears. I just can't believe this. I know it is no big deal but it still gets me every time they put my baby under. Praying that she outgrows all this and she wont need them after this set.